Brief Thoughts on Irony

Posted by Eric Lee on January 9, 2009 at 2:44 pm.

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It is often said by the British that Americans do not understand irony. I think this is true depending upon which swath of Americans are being referred to, but by no means is it true in my circles of friends on the West coast. If I remember correctly, though, the place I heard this generalisation uttered was referring more to American pop culture: whereas American pop culture is more defined by glitz, glorification of celebrity, explosions and violence on television on movies, British pop culture, from what I can tell thus far, seems to be more defined by–yes–irony, wittiness (or attempts thereof), and sly humour.

Having now lived in England for a short period of about six months, I’m not so sure if irony is as ‘essential’ to the culture (if there can be such a thing) as just the fact of societal indirectness. When it comes to humour, this is great. But when it comes to relationships it seems like at its worst, such indirectness can quickly become passive aggressive writ large. Although, perhaps Americans are just too direct, too aggressive.

Now, on one level, as long as it moves beyond it’s stylistic embodiments in culture, irony is perfectly fine. Heck, I even wrote an MA thesis partly on irony (“Contradiction, Paradox, and Irony: Theological and Philosophical Stances of Hegel and Kierkegaard”). Søren Kierkegaard, in more ways than one, was an ironic figure, and even extoled the virtues (so to speak) of indirectness and indirect communication. In so many ways, especially within his context of Christendom, Kierkegaard’s approach seems to me the right one — and are we not in the same context?

Yet, I am not always so sure about this. Because of it’s tendencies toward sarcasm (of the biting kind), and because real relationships don’t really seem to work very well if one person thinks they can really be a gadfly, I am reminded of when Jesus said that we should let our “yes be yes” and our “no be no” (Matthew 5:37Open Link in New Window; James 5:12Open Link in New Window). Quintilian’s definition of irony is that the “phenomenon is different from the essence”; in other words, that when one speaks, they do not mean what they say. This is the famous definition of Socratic irony.

I am not entirely sure what to make of this yet… I went to sleep last night thinking of this for some reason. Clearly, I am not going to make some banal claim such that “see, Socrates isn’t Christian” or other obviously anachronistic idiocies. Kierkegaard/Anti-Climacus is correct when he talks about the indirect communication of the God-man in Practice in Christianity, which is something quite different from one’s communication. It’s like the indirectness of the God-man was more an existential one of stance or ‘comportment’. But then, I am reminded that Jesus Christ is the Father’s communication as the Word, so then I get confused again. I’m just thinking aloud.

2 Comments

  • Alex says:

    As someone who has been British all my life, I’d actually say that irony and indirectness in relationships are sign of a strong relationship rather than a weak one. To be able to be ironic to people, and for that to be understood as irony, requires a close friendship, in order that the person “gets” it. It is only people outside your circle of friends you have to carefully make sure what you say cannot be misunderstood, within this group you can be ironic as you like and it will be understood.As for Jesus, this was on the swearing of oaths, I’m sure you don’t think that irony is akin to lying. Particularly for one who spoke in a series of paradoxical and baffling parables (who intention was to be baffling and difficult, read our own Anthony Thiselton on the parable form).

  • Eric Lee says:

    Thanks for the comment. I was hoping somebody British would speak up!

    I confess that most of the grist for the “indirectness” of which I speak comes from the office environment that Tiana has had to deal with since she started working here in the UK.  

    Other than that, I agree with you!

    And no, I don’t think irony is akin to lying.

    Where I get confused is that this ‘border’ that delineates this “circle of friends” is not only too often arbitrary, but is all too often used as a bludgeon itself (again, I guess all office politics could fall under this).

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